Big Idea: Don't get stuck in default mode. You are custom-made in Christ.
Sometimes, what seems so "normal" to us has been shaped by our culture, upbringing, or our own preference. We can get stuck in this default mode without realising it. particularly in our sexuality and how we find intimacy. But God offers a different way from what has become "normal". God calls us His own, and desires intimacy with us. God calls us to be holy in our sexuality.
1) STEEP yourself in God's Word.
2) CULTIVATE intimacy with spiritual friends, godly mentors, your family.